T got the offer we want.
If he accepts the offer high chance is his green card application has to be redone. What we lose is not only couple of thousands of money and time we spent on this, but also two years position we got in the waiting pipe line. What we will get, instead, a better place to live, a bigger city for our child, and a better financial situation.
So we are kinda of standing at the crossing road, the decision to go or not to go will totally change our life in the next 5 years. It is a safe-or-risk game. We can be on the safe side and then get our green card and plan on finding a new job later. Or we can take the risk and wait to another 4 to 5 years to get our green card. Is it harder to get green card, or harder to get a good job? Is it more attractive to us the green card, or the green bill?
I believe everything happens for a reason and all things happening in our lives are pre-planned somehow. No matter what decision T finally makes, I will support him and I will live with it. As long as three of us are together and healthy, no difficulty is able to defeat us.
Love u, T, love u, W.
